This is not about us, it's about the environment that we live in. It's about the ecological balance. It's about what we pass on to future generations. Please, let's do something about it.
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
Call of the Wild
Monday, February 25, 2008
Miss Missing Missed! (Keshi)
Sunday, February 24, 2008
reflections III(vishesh)
well here's what i feel about truth and lies....its not that i don't lie,but i try to avoid.I will not lie when it really matters.I don't care even if ti is life or death.I believe in telling the truth and being frank,but then sometimes you have to be more discreet,according to the situation.Why all this about truth,donno,just thought about this.Why do certain people lie.As a "kid" sometimes "adults" feel its alright to lie to.I am teen now and still you can find people not being all that straight on the face.I think telling the kids the truth will help get away from unwanted things.Now if the parents of kids who go around shooting has told the kids that ragging and teasing are a part of life and had been truthful in the efforts to help them out then there wouldn't have been problems...
but how truthful is the world to itself? we all lied to ourselves about so many things and now we face so many problems...
anyway here's a poem...
from nowhere came lives
and from no where come lies.
the truth is hardly to be spoken
lies are the best presentable token.
life has turned into full of gambits-
you cannot survive without wits.
truth and lies are knit,
so that they perfectly fit.
if you want to be,
the very best,
and have cash in the bank’s chest,
and push away from the rest,
then lies are the best.
if you want to be
the trusted friend-best,
then learn to guard people like chest,
and don’t push way calling them rest.
truth is the best.
truth has no form,
so people might think it is wrong.
we belong to a throng,
yet have to sing our own song-
for life isn’t too long,
and sometimes its just prong.
but till our swan song,
we need to believe truth will live along.
or life’s worth will be gone.
this is one of fav songs:-
Monday, February 18, 2008
Missing Sunday: AmitL: Part I
Did it happen? Did I dream it all? Or, was it all an extended Saturday night dream, and I slept through the whole of Sunday?
…and, today is Monday, when I’m alive and awake and feeling much fresher.
LOL. It happens, it happened yesterday, it could happen in the coming days as well. A Sunday gone missing, I mean. And, I’m left wondering whether the vague recollection was an illusion, a dream which I'm remembering nicely or reality.
Of course, it has happened with me only in Dubai. What happens is, Sunday is the first day of the working week here(Fri, Sat being off). So, all those suppliers who have also had two days off, or, those who could not contact me on Saturday( I avoid picking up the cellphone on Saturdays), have me on their ‘hit list’ for Sunday. So, from the cell to the landline to the cell, the day flies by, clubbed with the usual paperwork and all related project works, many times, the day ends before I can say ‘Ahchoo’.
Saturday, February 16, 2008
A Thousand Splendid Suns (Michelle)
It narrates the story of two women.Mariam and Laila, who are brought together by fate, to hold onto eachother through the series of events that present themselves that are beyond horrifying.Its during this time, that they find solace in eachother.
I finished the book in 2 hours because I just couldn't put it down! At the end, I cried.It took me on such an emotional journey.
To think that girls my age, go through a lifetime of pain and sadness and things that I can't even imagine!
I would totally suggest everyone to read this book.I can feel the emotion with which the author has written the book.I can't wait for his next one!
For a more detailed synopsis, go to
Friday, February 15, 2008
reflections-II (vishesh)
these are reflections to whats happening around the country.(yup yup...you know it is ...its a matter of the tongue..) i know many of you live in Mumbai and i am the only BUFer from Chennai,i might not be in the middle of things,but i have been reading a lot about it...so well here are my thoughts and what i think we need...
If not now maybe never.
in need for unity,
trying to forget animosity.
in need for comradeship
and love beyond friendship-
in the land of a billions,
the land which showed resilience-
to the empire which never set.
the land which did not rest
now has forgotten what is the best.
we are in search of a leader,
who is not a wager -
who will not gamble
with our preamble.
we built our land
with sweat in our hand,
now we fight our kind,
we have almost lost our mind,
we are in search of a leader,
who is a peace-maker.
all we ask for is one among
all in the throng
to rise and fight
be wise and protect our right.
we all are looking-searching
for one human being.
unity is something we never won,
though we import petrol-a million ton.
brotherhood is something bubble,
the US is ready to give us missile.
language has become our barrier,
KFC and Mc have hit our carrier.
we all are ready to pick a side,
we slaughter animals for their hide.
to ourselves we have lied,
chevy and ford have become our ride.
there are many filthy rich,
poor earn selling fish.
few indulge in champagne
others end up in political campaign.
we have left no one,
soon there shall be no son,
one-who will call this land home,
we all will then be left to moan.
brands have become world wide,
we will have no place to hide,
guns and barriers forged again,
everyone will have nothing but pain,
our homes will all be boo-thank you nuke,
if you have survived it is by fluke,
music will never be the same again,
we all will wonder why this bane-
on the brink of sanity,
unless we forget enimity,
we all shall die,
before we know why.
all we need is unity,
and we need a personality,
why not you ,
why not me,
are we to afraid
and counting fate?
this can be the last sing-song,
very few have done wrong,
there are lots with cloths torn,
while others have borne,
what a few have thrown.
We need a unity,
forget your eccentricity,
we have in our blood,
one common mud.
together we can rise and defend,
it maybe our last chance to mend.
poem originally posted here.
Thursday, February 14, 2008
me again with all smiles(uttssyy)
Reflections, Sunday missing n Smile.. somewhere all these 3 go hand in hand.. wonder how???
if Sundays weren't in existence i wouldn't have smiled cos it's a reflection of my mind :)... I wouldn't be able to out for weekend trips.. whoaaaa
Meaning i wouldn't have been able to meet many of them during weekends.. Not do what I want to do ( which I usually do on weekends)... n mostly Shopping.. hehehe... It's just like the way i did this time :P.. i went to Ahmedabad for my personal work but. how the hell I couldn't have met up with Rajbir :p.. it was just way too rejuvenating whenever I meet him.
"Thank you for showering all the love and care you shower and putting me up at your place.. It was just way too sweet of you and your hospitality if awesomeeeeee" .
Also.. I really can't forget the bed tea (i'm not used to ), breakfast and lunch which he prepared.. yummyyy.. i still remember the taste.. :D.. long drive in the chilly night .. hmmmmmmmm thank u soooo much once again :) muaaaaah (peck on ur cheeks .. copying u :D) hehehehhe
Ain't I'm happy with all these? yes it's the reflection of a happy heart, a lovely person showers all the love, who makes one feel sooo comfortable and special..
Now you all agree with my first statement? :D "Reflections, Sunday missing n Smile.. somewhere all these 3 go hand in hand.."
Happy valentine's day to you all :) :) :)
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Silvara: Reflections
What if I was an only child? Or the youngest, instead of the oldest?
Would I love science and art and fashion and history?? Or would I hate maths??
Would I still retreat into the world of books when I was lonely? Would I like the same books?
What if I was born poor? What if I had to scrimp and save for everything - where survival was more than just making in the business world - it was surviving life?
What if I didn't have one parent - or either? Would I be the same?
If I took away everything from my life that had the potential to shape me - who would I be? Just another human - like an empty canvas, void of anything.
It almost is exciting to think about the potential of starting over again - fresh and new. But what about what makes me now - would I change that to have a second chance?? I don't know.
Tell me what you think.
Monday, February 11, 2008
reflections (vishesh)
isn't it beautiful?
btw.I have changed my "home"...well my blog address has changed - This is vishesh
Friday, February 8, 2008
Word:Reflections:AmitL
- Mental concentration; careful consideration.
- A thought or an opinion resulting from such consideration.
- The folding of a membrane from the wall of a cavity over an organ and back to the wall.
The folds so made.
- An indirect expression of censure or discredit: a reflection on his integrity.
- A manifestation or result: Her achievements are a reflection of her courage.
Thursday, February 7, 2008
Missing.........
Hmmm.... now, I'll be honest this entire chain of thoughts was spawned by the flick of the same name when I saw its promos on the TV. After having watched the film, I must say it is far from what I was thinking. I mean, in that movie a girl is drugged, adn then she loses track of an entire day during which she scares the wit out of two people, takes a ride with a drug abuser, get hit for being too smart, witnesses a murder (who later has mercenaries going for her) and finally somehow reaching home only to sleep off the entire Sunday!!! She remembers nothing and starts her day on Monday, thinking it to be Sunday!!! And thus the story weaves around her. Good job, I'd say!!! But then, I digress.
So, what was I saying? Yeah.... what if Sunday was wiped off from my life, the calendar? How would thing stand?? In fact, why do we have seven days in a week?? What is the logic here? With the Sunday missing, which day would be a holiday? And when would I catch up on sleep?
Oh, I couldn't think further expet absolute mayhem!!
Absolute, I tell you!! I think forgetting entirely about a day is better than to have it missing!!!
By the way, to all of you, when you are out somewhere do not accept drinks from strangers... they may be spiked. And for all that you know it might Rephnol (the rape drug!!). So be careful when you hit the pub the next time!!
Take care people and keep smiling!!! :)
*smile smile smile :)*
and the news issssssss...........
God blessed my Bhai and bhabhi ( bro and sis-in-law) with a princess on the 5th of feb.. YES ! A beautiful b'day gift :). I wanted to take the pics of all my gifts one would be her .. but unfortunately i can't :p cos she is at the hospital.. all playful and getting naughty.. Isn't this a wonderful feeling? I was in the 7th heaven ( suchi u were right about this :) )
WOW !! I still can't believe this.. It hasn't digested yet .. hehe
NOW GUYS "SMILE" and as it's rightly said...
"Smile is the shortest distance between two hearts" :)
Tuesday, February 5, 2008
Sunday, February 3, 2008
Hope it's not too late to apologize....
Yes, I come back slinking in here, tail in between my legs, quite shamefaced as I know that I have been away from BUF for a while. So first of all - I am sorry.
*big toothy grin*
Now, how can you resist that smile??? Hmmmmm??? Hehehe, I know you all forgive me (I am crossing my fingers as I type that, so please please please forgive me) and I want to give a bit of an update on life as it has been, what's happening now and a bit of a ramble on the topics and BUF in general.
So....over the last couple of months I have:
- Gotten married :D
2. Honeymooned in New Zealand where one of the crazy things we did was bungy jump 400m over Queenstown
- Moved in with my in-laws and settled into married life
- Gained weight :(
- Am now currently waiting to start work as corporate bigwig (I wish :P)
I have had lots of reasons to smile lately. Waking up in the morning with my darling husband. Reading the paper and drinking coffee. Playing tennis. Taking the dogs for a walk around the lake. Lots of chocolate (which is making me cry at the moment....grrr). My family. Weddings and friends.
My birthday on the 22nd of Feb *HINT HINT* I turn a quarter of a century. Noooooooo! :D
I don't exactly have a smile. With GREAT effort I keep my mouth closed - otherwise it usually turns into a full blown grin as you can see in the pics above. Everyone says I have glow-in-the-dark teeth, that really there isn't any need for the light to be on, because all I need to do is grin and I can light the way for anyone in the dark. It has gotten me into trouble...and out of it :P
So this is a bit of a request to Keshi and all the other BUFer's out there.... SMILE. Or grin. And come back.
Saturday, February 2, 2008
Update!
Don't worry, I'm not leaving or anything.This post is a sincere request for Keshi to please not leave.
Look guys, I know you have busy schedules and issues but EVERYONE DOES so I am urging all you sleepy heads to please wake up! Don't tell me you can't write on one topic cause right now its not Between Us Friends.Its Between Michelle, Amit, Loon Gal, Southpaw, Keshi and Jitendra!
Anyway, Keshi, you have always been one of the major reasons I have stuck around to write not only here but also on my blog and you are always around for everyone all the time.I know you are frustrated, but I am really hoping you come back.Cause right now we need you.Please.I was so upset when I read your post.I signed off altogether.
I have a suggestion.Why don't we write on just anything? If you want everyone to still write on certain topics that is also definitely cool cause then you get a variety of thoughts on the same topic but you can also write on other stuff you think is interesting.
Sam suggested some nice topics.So how about we write on
1. A Book Review
or
2. What if a Sunday went missing in your life
I know I can't force anyone but I just had to let this out.
Friday, February 1, 2008
Word:Smile: AmitL(Part II)
I, me and BUF... (Ishita)
BUF by the way…just in case any of you didn’t notice…will be completing a year in March (and almost touching the 450 post mark...this one's no. 449) and amazingly it feels like more than a year has passed by when I look at the way BUF’s been. Personally, I think I lost more than gained here. But the optimist in me chooses to look at the positives rather than the negatives. That’s simply the way I’ve conditioned my mind. It may not always be realistic but it works for me.
I guess in many ways the loss of friends from BUF doesn’t hurt as much because I do still keep in touch out of BUF. What hurts is the loss of BUF as I thought it would be…could be….should have been. A huge part of my resentment lies in the way I probably handled it. I sometimes get confused as to which is the right approach. When I would email frequently and do updates and send out personal mails etc etc, some termed it pushy and asked for more freedom to post per will. When I made BUF more flexible and open, I found BUFer’s losing interest. I’m not sure what works best for BUF….or maybe BUF doesn’t work at all? It’s an idea like many that just fizzles away once the novelty is gone…maybe that’s it?
But I don’t want to sit and analyse it all here. I’ve been more or less off blogging and the virtual world for the past month…though the blogger in me does do the random post now and then on “Daily Dose” (my personal space). It has a lot to do with some changes in my personal life. These are days of complete relaxation and anticipation for me. I’ve been told to stay completely stress free so I intend to keep it that way!! I’m superstitious I guess which is why I won’t blog about it openly but you’re free to make your own guesses :)
And yes, my past experience in being an active BUFer has been anything but stress free :P … No seriously, I enjoyed it (despite the many mistakes I might have made) but the times when issues cropped up took a huge toll on me and people living around me, which is why I’ve been advised to stay off BUF in terms of handling stuff around here.
Of course that would mean having someone else or everyone taking the onus of keeping BUF going. I’d rather everyone did so. Make your suggestions in the shoutbox., do an occasional update, wish each other on your special days….etc. Just be interactive and hang around chit chatting. No one gets around here anymore…. It’s simply sad :( *sigh*
I will be back you know. I can’t be kept away forever. But I’m wondering what will I come back to? That’s the thought that plays on my mind….the answer to which I dread.
That’s all for now…I’m hoping some of u will drop by to read and comment and maybe come up with some answers.
4th February and 5th February are special days … Deepthi and Uttara’s birthday respectively! Nope I’m not wishing you yet :P but I hope to be around and write on your day uttsy :)!
9th February is Rajbir and Kavita's anniversary...another milestone...another year of togetherness :)
24th February is also an old long missing BUFer and dear friend to many...Kathy's anniversary. Miss u girl!
I haven’t accessed the team mailbox in ages. If I’ve missed any special days, I sincerely apologise. It’s not intentional at all and I want to thank Rajbir for the lovely dedication for Messy. Hope you had a lovely day and have many more such special and happy birthdays :)
Wishing you all a whole lot of reasons to smile :)
Ishi