Lesson Learnt (Rathna)

This is some 4 years ago. It was my first job. I was just out of College, new to internet. I was all into making new online friends. But logging into messengers was prohibited. In spite of that I kept on logging into messengers and browsing online. Then I felt helpless, kind of addicted to internet.

Now I feel adequate, I have net at home …at office still I seldom come on net or login to messengers. I guess after a point of time we grow out of habits. But alas people don’t understand and give us a chance to grow out of habits. They try to impose things on us which makes us arrogant and more adamant. I have learnt not to impose things on people.

10 things about Mr./Mrs. Right ( Rathna )

I really Apologize for not being around for some time...but thats no excuse!

I was tagged soemtime back with 8 things...but i'll go ahead and add 2 more to that list....as my list of things for Mr. Right or Mr Perfect has not changed :D

1. He should be handsome, winsome, considerate, intellectual, and smart.

2. He should have a good sense of humor.

3. He should be honest, sincere, loyal, faithful, peaceful, passionate, happy, and prosperous.

4. He should be strong (esp. mentally), powerful, very masculine, adventurous, loving, and successful.

5. He should be disciplined, have a rich positive peaceful attitude, affirmative, assertive, straight forward, and understanding.

6. He should be sensible, knowledgeable, confident and responsible.

7. He should sing/play my favorite Love songs.

8. Last but definitely not the least. He should prepare very good 'Tea'.

2 more which I want to Add and are very imp is

9. He should be spiritual( not realigious though)

10. He should be metally strong and mature ..i guess this is very imp :P

too much huh ?

but i dont think so..its like if few of the qualities are in place ...rest simply follows ...I am not expecting tooo much...Am I ??

My Favorite post...Rathna

This is one of my favorite posts.

It was my bday as well as Mother's day...and I had dedicated this post to my mom.

My mom mean a lot to me!

Here goes my favorite....

Let yourself be open and life will be easier. A spoon of salt in a glass of water makes the water undrinkable. A spoon of salt in a lake is almost unnoticed. - Buddha

Every year this day, I will ask only one question to myself.

Why was I born on this day?

Is there some link missing?

If yes, what is that?

Thank you, mom

For all the strength & courage you give me,
For all the faith & Trust you have in me,
For dressing me down when I did mistakes,
For all the kudos from you for my silly and small achievements!

You are my super MOM, I Love You!

Rathna from deep White Forest...:)

I am glad that I have been invited to this forum of between friends!

Well, well, well…My best friend Seema has already given my warm intro generously!

Yes this is about me :) I am honored to have a friend like her who is so supportive and encouraging! Yes! Seema

I am yet to know myself very well ...I will give a brief intro of myself as far as I know!

I was once upon a time studious gal until 12th std. But after that I drastically changed and leaned upon my extra curricula’s like singing, playing chess and theatre.

Though I take sometime to let a person into my world, I like making new friends and discover their nature completely. I have had the best times learning and discovering new things with my friends which is really unforgettable.

I love butterflies. May be bcoz they are colorful and beautiful! And thats my cute smile :D

Hmmm..mujhe bohot bohot bohot bohot gussa aata hain…I easily get angry. And this anger is devastating most of the times. Well none of them who know me and who just know me as a friend agree to this. There is a reason for that. I don’t get angry 90% of the times…the 10% of the times when I get angry, it’s devastating!

I play chess weirdly! I cannot tolerate when my opponent takes my Queen!
I feel as though he/she has taken away “ME” and imprisoned. I feel I want to spoil the game or resign from it though it’s not the end of the game!

There is always a combat between illusion and illumination in my mind....Whenever, I flow in the flow of illusions....my other side of the mind illuminates me with its light ...and tells me to do what is right!

So to sum it up ...I am a combat btn…illusions and illumination! (that’s also my name in Orkut:) )

And to talk about current topic, Seema is my best friend for 2 n half years now. Yes the very same Jaan ki sweetheart….. For what she considers me in her life…whatever I say is going to be less.

She is extremely supportive and friendly. Very caring and she believes in nurturing friendships tenderly which I like the most in her. She is also my best critic. But she has a very nice way of putting things across. I hardly care about how I look, what I wear. Seema is someone who suggests things that can make me a better person!

I am always inspired by her boldness and confidence she carries along!