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Tuesday, July 17, 2007

Virtual ??(Puja)

Virtual Relation - This topic I really don’t know how to start it. So please bear with me if I say something which might sound weird to you. Oh ho app sab ke jitna aacha nahi likh sakthi plss plss bear with me.

Life is all about relationships. Family, friends, colleagues, neighbors, relatives -the list is endless. Every day you come across a set of people and bond a relationship with them. Be it a chai wala where you drink ur cup of tea everyday “Dada chai dona garam garam” and one day he suddenly disappears. I am sure you will at least think and ask some one wr’s he gone ?? what happ?? Is he alrite ??? Does it sound funny to you all!!!!

The bottom line is that you, consciously or unconsciously, form a bond with people in your life.

From a simple smile to an half an hr’s of conversation, the depth of your connection may vary, but the string that ties you to different people remains the same. The need to love someone and be loved in return, to have someone to share with and be a part of their experiences-our whole life revolves around these few things. Internet is totally different ballgame. We can connect to total strangers, some of whom you may never meet in real life. Some bad some good!!!!

I entered the Net world when I was all alone totally lost no friends, heartbroken, sirf rona and just pbms pbms and pbms.

Everybody knows here that my niece Prachi is not well. None of my Real friends whom I used to hang out with, my so called close relatives!! Never did any body come forward with a helping hand. And to be frank I dint knew what to do at that time whom should I talk? Which hospital should I go? What should I do ? I felt so helpless. “”Meine aap sab se help mangi”” and its you all l who gave me support, love, prayers for prachi and gifts too. And I am out of words to thank each one of you. And I don’t want to thank anybody now bcoz we are a family now which is growing and is become stronger and stronger.



And tell me guys who will send gifts for you?

Me and keshi have a wonderful bonding with her. ”””Its not that I don’t have with anybody else …hai sab ke saath hai ””” Just listen to me ok. So I came across her blog may be November 2006. And from that it like we are Great frnds we mail each other we message each other. I can’t tell that our relation is a virtual one!!! Never will I …She is an Angel for me 

My mum always says why do want to make friends …what this chatting business??? It’s all bullshit. (Marwadi huna so pretty strict for girls here) and I used to say - What's wrong in making new friends? Maa. Don't we do that in real life too? Don't we walk across a roomful of people and introduce ourselves and start a conversation? Aren't those people strangers for us at that moment of time?



But when I showed her betweenfrnds blog and showed her how I have got the response for Prachi. When Keshi send Gifts for Prachi she was just quiet …she was in tears. So do you think I should name my relation with you all as Virtual? It’s like slapping OUR relation, making fun!!!!!

Vitual word is thr in my dictionary but doesn’t apply for everybody. It’s how you consider you relation to be. It’s how you want the relation to be. And it sometimes actually in our hands whether to have a Virtual relation, Fake relation or a Real Realtion !!!!

Besides, how real are the real relationships? (Not pointing to all the relations here)

I have been so lucky to have you all in my life. I might not talk/chat with everybody here, But the kind of bond we all have is amazing. That 1 hr of updating and reading thru blogs and little bit of chit chat are real bliss. I can be myself without the artificial barriers of looks, social and financial status and so on.

Kudos to all of us !!! :) Love you all



PS : Sexyroo dont cry ok after seeing these pictures. Prachi is doing fine. She will be undertreatment for may be life long. She can sit now :) isnt that a good news :))) for atleast 15 mts continously. She is my chottu chottu Ladoo :))

Have a nice day !! :)))

18 comments:

  1. And it sometimes actually in our hands whether to have a Virtual relation, Fake relation or a Real Realtion !!!! ***correct!

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  2. pooo..

    it was wonderfullll talking with u :) thanx for calling :)
    n hey this is a beautiful post.. nicely written kaun keheta hai u dont write well laooo usko mere saamne.. :P

    n sweety all our love n prayers with prachi..
    aur rahi keshi ki baat i have reserved my talking for my post.. so wait till then :D
    lol


    HUGGGGGGGGGZ

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  3. Heyy Pooo, you have written straight from the heart and it shows.

    Hugs for you and all my wishes for the lil baby Prachi.

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  4. thanks fr sharing news about prachi poo :)... m sure ppl here share ur happiness in knowing she is doing better and is now sitting :)... how cute is that...soon she'll be crawling arnd the place too... wait n watch :)

    and yes people need to get here and read all the posts in BUF to read about how Real so called "Virtual" frenz are and read about incidents and circumstances that have forged strong bonds...

    and ur posts have a nice feel... u know like u're sitting across me and talking to me? That makes it personal and special :)

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  7. First of all I must say that Prachi is looking healthier in these pics. It must be the lil book and that musical toy I sent :) Im so glad she's enjoying all of that Poo.

    The pics of her with the book I sent TOUCHED me deeply. It really finally made me feel like somehow my LOVE reached out to Prachi across the miles and she's now holding it in her hands! So like u said here, virtual LOVE n FRIENDSHIP are also REAL. As humanbeing we all use some medium to start off r'ship...it cud be at school, at work, at a party, thru a phone or a PC. Whatever it is, a friendship is nothing more or less than a friendship is. Cos we cant run away from being HUMAN whether we form that r'ship thru a PC or thru some other means. We remain human from the day we r born til the day we die. Emotions dun take a different form just cos they r conveyed thru bits n bytes.


    HUGGGGGGGGGZ this post touched me deeply! And ty for the call. That was so sweet...our crazy MWAHHHS lol! :)


    Keshi.

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  8. And I must say that last pic is the BEST pic. So much Love!

    Keshi.

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  9. poo..aww she's so cute ya!
    my best wishes r wit her..although i guess i am a bit late knwin bout ur niece!

    uve written very well poo...i can feel how it must be for u!

    hugzz

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  10. nice post.... !!! all the wishes for little prachi!!!!

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  11. And Poo give ur Ma a HUG from me. :)

    Keshi.

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  12. o yaar!! badiya news hai prachi ke bare me... bas aur thoda sa.. fir mujhe dancing partner ki talash nahi karni padegi!! :P
    seriously heartening to see such lively and healthy pics of prachi... and i must say, it was your post which brought me around to BUF and made me think very highly.... and not just some other blog one ocmes across every day....
    the fact, that ppl here bonded like crazy and the personal touch in here... still leaves me spellbound at times!!

    and you post, is so "direct dil se".... love it!! the simplest and beautiful of all.... sorry guys, poo takes the cake!! :)

    cheers to everyone....

    and loads and loads and loads of love for Prachi!! :)

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  13. vowwww...thats such a cute baby!

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  14. Hi Papaji…sab kuch apne haathon mein hai :)

    Thank you for talking to me.

    Hi Uttsy –

    Same here dear, It was lovely talking to you.
    “kaun keheta hai u dont write well laooo usko mere saamne.. :P” lol

    Thanks dear :)

    Hi Aakash

    Straight from my heart ..thanks dear But I had to think soooo much phewwww

    TC

    Hi Ishita

    Crawling….I am just dying to see her doing all the masti and everything and pulling my hair and fighting with me. Yes Ppl shud read our post. Kuch jo Duniya mein Bure log hain unko bhi akal aajayegi :P

    u know like u're sitting across me and talking to me? Ek din hum zaroor saath mein honge aur bahut saari masti karenge

    Sometimes I am talking to myself and answering my own questions – Funny I am sometimes :)

    TC dear

    Hi Sexyroo

    My sweetie my ladoo my chottu …How are you?

    Yeah Prachi is become very healthy now…next time when she goes to the doctor I am sure the doctor will say “she needs some diet” Her neurologist has already told that. Ad you know what she loves Cerelac. Even in the middle of the night if you give her cerelac to eat she will happily eat and sleep.

    “a friendship is nothing more or less than a friendship is “ So true Dear We can forget what we have spoken but we will never forget how the relation makes us feel special.

    And Poo give ur Ma a HUG from me. :) – Promise when I reach home one Big Hug for Maa )

    “crazy MWAHHHS lol! :)” One more to you 

    TC Sweetie

    Hi Wacko

    How are you? “uve written very well poo...” Thank you dear

    TC

    Hi Sam

    Oye Puttar, Thank you ji

    “dancing partner ki talash nahi karni padegi!! :P” aapko nahi lagtha aap bahut bade ho uske liye ….. kahin aapka Bhari paon uske chote chote paon pe ja pade tho

    I will kill you – LOL just kidding masti kar rahi hoon (Bura laga tho I am v-sorry)

    “it was your post which brought me around to BUF and made me think very highly” :) :) :)

    the fact, that ppl here bonded like crazy and the personal touch in here... still leaves me spellbound at times!! – That’s why this blog is so special …don’t you agree ?//

    poo takes the cake!! :)- Thank you ,but sab ne itna aacha likha hai. Everybody has some thing to share a different story, A different relation.

    Hi WhiteForest

    Thanks Dear

    Thanks you
    Love you all
    TC

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  15. wow wat a gr8 way god has to show that virtual doesnt mean only virtualwill pray for prachi. she looks so cute.. nice pst poo. thanks for sharing

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  16. ** Even in the middle of the night if you give her cerelac to eat she will happily eat and sleep.

    lol awww she sounds so cute. I can just oicture her eating Cerelac in the nite :):) cutey cutey bubbbzy baby!


    So did u give that HUG to Ma? :)

    btw I read ur comment in my blog today and ofcourse I smiled with tears in my eyes...I really did. With u ard I can never be sad for too long. ty n HUGGGGGGGGGGZ Poo!


    Keshi.

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  17. Dont mention it puttar, it was a pleasure talking to u...:)

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