Virtual ??(Puja)

Virtual Relation - This topic I really don’t know how to start it. So please bear with me if I say something which might sound weird to you. Oh ho app sab ke jitna aacha nahi likh sakthi plss plss bear with me.

Life is all about relationships. Family, friends, colleagues, neighbors, relatives -the list is endless. Every day you come across a set of people and bond a relationship with them. Be it a chai wala where you drink ur cup of tea everyday “Dada chai dona garam garam” and one day he suddenly disappears. I am sure you will at least think and ask some one wr’s he gone ?? what happ?? Is he alrite ??? Does it sound funny to you all!!!!

The bottom line is that you, consciously or unconsciously, form a bond with people in your life.

From a simple smile to an half an hr’s of conversation, the depth of your connection may vary, but the string that ties you to different people remains the same. The need to love someone and be loved in return, to have someone to share with and be a part of their experiences-our whole life revolves around these few things. Internet is totally different ballgame. We can connect to total strangers, some of whom you may never meet in real life. Some bad some good!!!!

I entered the Net world when I was all alone totally lost no friends, heartbroken, sirf rona and just pbms pbms and pbms.

Everybody knows here that my niece Prachi is not well. None of my Real friends whom I used to hang out with, my so called close relatives!! Never did any body come forward with a helping hand. And to be frank I dint knew what to do at that time whom should I talk? Which hospital should I go? What should I do ? I felt so helpless. “”Meine aap sab se help mangi”” and its you all l who gave me support, love, prayers for prachi and gifts too. And I am out of words to thank each one of you. And I don’t want to thank anybody now bcoz we are a family now which is growing and is become stronger and stronger.



And tell me guys who will send gifts for you?

Me and keshi have a wonderful bonding with her. ”””Its not that I don’t have with anybody else …hai sab ke saath hai ””” Just listen to me ok. So I came across her blog may be November 2006. And from that it like we are Great frnds we mail each other we message each other. I can’t tell that our relation is a virtual one!!! Never will I …She is an Angel for me 

My mum always says why do want to make friends …what this chatting business??? It’s all bullshit. (Marwadi huna so pretty strict for girls here) and I used to say - What's wrong in making new friends? Maa. Don't we do that in real life too? Don't we walk across a roomful of people and introduce ourselves and start a conversation? Aren't those people strangers for us at that moment of time?



But when I showed her betweenfrnds blog and showed her how I have got the response for Prachi. When Keshi send Gifts for Prachi she was just quiet …she was in tears. So do you think I should name my relation with you all as Virtual? It’s like slapping OUR relation, making fun!!!!!

Vitual word is thr in my dictionary but doesn’t apply for everybody. It’s how you consider you relation to be. It’s how you want the relation to be. And it sometimes actually in our hands whether to have a Virtual relation, Fake relation or a Real Realtion !!!!

Besides, how real are the real relationships? (Not pointing to all the relations here)

I have been so lucky to have you all in my life. I might not talk/chat with everybody here, But the kind of bond we all have is amazing. That 1 hr of updating and reading thru blogs and little bit of chit chat are real bliss. I can be myself without the artificial barriers of looks, social and financial status and so on.

Kudos to all of us !!! :) Love you all



PS : Sexyroo dont cry ok after seeing these pictures. Prachi is doing fine. She will be undertreatment for may be life long. She can sit now :) isnt that a good news :))) for atleast 15 mts continously. She is my chottu chottu Ladoo :))

Have a nice day !! :)))