It goes beyond the Lines (Jewel Rays)

Dating. An interesting, fun and beautiful process of getting to know someone and allowing ya love detector to test if there is any potenital in this lady/guy.A time when we get to know each other's interests, dislikes, personality and outlook in life. I guess first impressions counts. But i think dating which often leads to a relationship if the detector deems it right goes beyond the first few good looking shirts he wore and his irresistably well styled hair in the few dates that passed us by. Not to say that looks, hygeine and a good impression does not count at all. I believe they do and are infact also big contributors when u finally made up ya mind. I mean after all you don't want to be attracted & be with someone without good hygeine once you make up ya mind. Sex appeal does matter much..haha..:P

I guess apperance has a limit that does not depict as much. But what that person carries within his thoughts, attitude and heart goes a longer way than his outside.As for me, one of the irresistable things in a man would be his charisma, his ability to communicate on various topics ,humourous,listener, down to earth nature and yet a strong mind in what he believe in are the magnets somehow. (There are more to include but i will just note those above for now. And it would be nice to know abt u as well.:) I think through this it would give us a chance to discover if a person is on the same wavelength as us and if he could possibly be a strength to us if dating takes off big time.However, its always good to keep ya options open until the time is more ripe and settled inside.U don't want to get all caught up in cloud 9 and make a decision towards wat u are feeling at that moment at that time. I guess getting to know someone is not in a day or two but it takes quite a while.Its a really great time of discovering that special someone.:) And when u feel its right, the feeling is wow. The first few dates are always on the lines to impress one another on our good ethics, appearances and personality much that is if we have a good one. But when the stars start to draw their lights, the moon fades its moonlight and when ya feet starts to feel the hard cold ground. Its the within that goes a longer way that what was displayed outside. Character plays a big part and so does the little things that draws you to him much. :)

Dating, a moment to be grasps much. Its a real beautiful time of our lives. The good and the bad ones.Something to laugh with our friends abt or go doe eyed at times. Just one caution, do not get too caught up too fast.And when the dating process forms a stronger bond with both hearts just note the statement below if things blossom to white bells that ring out loud.

"Make sure you guys see eyes to eye on what makes a partnership that would last and compliment both lives and hearts."

And here to accompany my post the song.

"That don't impress me much - by Shania Twain"

Have a good weekend all.:)