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Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Some Things Don't Change (by Keshi)

When we are born we get a name to carry for the rest of our lives...and that will be our ID through our entire life. In that life, we meet many people, we form bonds, some break, some last longer, some people cheat, some stay true to themselves, some get hurt, some hurt others, some lie, some always speak the truth, some fall in love, some remain friends, some die young, some live longer, some care, some don't etc etc. That's the kind of life we all live...cos we are humanbeings and we can never run away from being human. So on the net too we do the same..create an ID and live our net lives. Friendships, infidelity, love, lust, mockery, jealousy, affection, lies, beauty, breakups etc etc they all exist on the net and outside the net too, don't they?

If we board a plane, do we become a different animal? When we are on the phone, are we any different from being off the phone? So when we are behind an ID and on the net, are we any different from who we really are? Do we stop being humans? Does our mind stop? Do the emotions take a different turn? Does the heart stop being the heart that it was before you sat in front of that PC? I don't think so. We are humans wherever we may be, whatever means we may be using to make new friends. Ofcourse people can put on an act on the net, but those who do that would be the same when they are not on the net as well...you know, putting on an act wherever they are.

My point is net or not, people don't change. You are YOU wherever you may be. And life is pretty much the same both on the net and outside. There will always be all kinds of people and relationships everywhere. Net or not, we remain who we are.

Having said that I have to say that the net has introduced me to some beautiful souls, who are not afraid to reveal their innermost emotions and share their joy and sorrow, and be there for each other. It's a beautiful place...a world away from this world...cos we are all connected on a mental level. And thats the true beauty of Life's solid relationships. You'd realise that even outside the net, if you're connected to someone on a mental level, nothing else matters. So that means, like I said before, Life is the same anywhere and it depends alot on the individual that you are...not on the medium you use to make friends. You are YOU wherever you are.

21 comments:

  1. Ofcourse people can put on an act on the net, but those who do that would be the same when they are not on the net as well..*********

    so true!

    keshi uve just brought an insight view of wht it really is!
    tis just that trusting or developin faith on somebody is a bit difficult online as compared to in the real life..dat bein d only difference i consider!

    cheers

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  2. This is exactly what i meant to know from each and everyone of u when i suggested this topic to ishita....
    And yesss get the God damn tent ready we r on, okay!!!! hahahahaha

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  3. that was a wonderful way of putting up the real picture.... i'm gonna save this upf or my personal journals... more like a small dissertation (gosh!! why do i always think like some prof!! :P)
    jokes apart... really liked the way you put across your views...
    no metter where you interact its always YOU who's interacting and you bring in your characteristic flavour everytime.... and that would define your relatonships where ever you might be!!

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  4. Loved the picture for Individualism, reminds me of the Jovi song, 'Who Says You Cant Go Home?'. =)

    Nicely writeup Keshi Girl. As nice as you. (actually i think you are nicer)

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  5. I think u said it wonderfully...kesh:)

    Of course i agree with it all but the one line that i think really should make people think is about people putting up an act....when u say that's how they must be in reality...u're right.

    It's not easy being someone else and faking through out...and if anyone can keep at it for ages...it's a worrying thot...

    But I guess in time we learn by simply living through it all much as we do in our "real" lives...and soon we know simply how to trust some more than others...that's what matters in the end...finding the right ppl we can call friends..

    :-)

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  6. Keshi,I fully agree with your words of wisdom:
    ...'You are YOU wherever you are..'
    A wonderful thought provoking post.
    My bes wishes.

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  7. keshi i agree there can be true friends ships thru the net too.. but there r so many ppl faking to be wat they r not just for the sake of it.. men chatting to men saying they r girls, using filthy language.. n so on.. thats sumthing which averted me from public chat

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  8. hey Wacko ty!

    **just that trusting or developin faith on somebody is a bit difficult online as compared to in the real life

    yes...but is it any different from real life? :)



    Keshi.

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  9. lolz Southy Im shopping for tents!


    Keshi.

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  10. hehe Aakash ty :)

    And I love Bon Jovi!

    Keshi.

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  11. ty Ish!

    **but the one line that i think really should make people think is about people putting up an act....when u say that's how they must be in reality...u're right.

    yes...cos if u cheat online, then most prolly ur a cheater in real life too. Im glad u realised what I said there.

    tnxx a ton Ish!


    Keshi.

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  12. True Diya...thats why I dun go into chat rooms. It's a place for sick ppl to vent out their frustrations and I dun wanna be a subject to em.

    Keshi.

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  13. hellooo Keshi..:D

    I like this post very much. Thought provoking and beautifully written.

    I guess its much safer on blogs than on chatrooms since blogs gives us a preview on the person's life, mind and stuff.

    :)Great post

    Cheers!

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  14. ty sweetie pie Amy. Im so glad to see u here. :) MWAHHHHHHH!

    yes blogs intro u to the person better. Chat rooms can be scary. Thats why I dun go there...even tho Im not a baby girl who can be seduced LOL! I just dun like being subjected to some lunatic's frustration.


    Keshi.

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  15. keshii

    u make a hell of asense here..

    i cant fake myself how cani fake my identity... that i can never do .. i donno how people fake it JUST LIKE THAT..
    but there are people like that so have to be careful.. n i know u had major experience with fake people..

    huggggz but we here are real..:d i'm proof for that cos i have met many :p

    hehehhe so u r in SAFE HANDS

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  16. """You are YOU wherever you are. """

    Its so true dear ..well said :))

    TC

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  17. Uttsy no one is more real than u r...HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!

    **but there are people like that so have to be careful.. n i know u had major experience with fake people..

    true..but those ppl wud be the same in real life too...once a fake, always a fake and everywhere too :)


    Keshi.

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  18. TY Poo MWAHHHHHHHHHHHH!

    :)
    Keshi.

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  19. @ anonymous ... Your comment has been removed by the admin team of this blog and not by the person for whom you carry all that resentment. This blog isn't the place to let loose your emotions and is definitely not the space for anybody who gets vicious and leaves hate comments for any member of this blog!

    Please keep keep your issues off this blog.

    Thank you.

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