This is one of my recent favourite posts and of course the favourite of the person who its dedicated to, and who also suggested I post this particular one.Thinking about how I was feeling when I wrote this post makes me smile.Hopefully, it will make you smile too :-)
Ever had that one person in your life for who you have thanked God a million times? Ever had that one person, whos number you dial almost automatically every time something good or bad or upsetting happens? I see my friends who have loved and lost, who have hurt and have been hurt, who have given up on this wonderful thing called 'love' and those who still have hope...I used to be that confused person.Confused about if life ever will give me a break and just let me be happy or confused about how situations mock me so horribly or confused about karma that always turned right back around...confusion confusion confusion.But, despite all this confusion, I always found happiness in the smallest of things...I began to expect so less, that every small thing seemed like such a huge deal!
I see my friends who have had their share of bad luck in love simply give up on the aspect of finally meeting that 'ideal' person, they scorn and scoff about those 'fairy tale' like endings and often just lock up their hearts and throw the keys as far as they can.I see some of them refer to love as 'bullshit' or 'crap' or the ever famous parent line, 'your too young'.Let me ask you a question...how can people that never found the true meaning of love, judge such an intimate and wonderful feeling? How can you just dismiss the entire prospect of loving someone after just one or two bad experiences.If you do believe someone is out there for you, bad experiences should simply be brushed off your shoulder.I used to be that person.The person that just GAVE UP.I wasted all my time wallowing and hurting myself over something that was NEVER mine.Something, that was never worth my tears or my love.
I just want to tell those that have given up, NEVER give up cause the person that is actually meant for you, is around...and when the time is right, you will know.He will open up his hand and will have that key to your heart in his palm :-)
I want to thank someone for making me feel so special...and for always holding my hand tighter and never letting go whatever the situation maybe...Thank You...You mean the world to me!
*WISHING ISHITA A VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!*
Wow Michelle! This is such a splendid post! Am glad u shared it with everyone. Think its so true that people mock love when things did not work out in the past. :)
ReplyDelete***I wasted all my time wallowing and hurting myself over something that was NEVER mine.Something, that was never worth my tears or my love.
Great stuff lady!
Rock on !
*Hugz*
You remember the last line of LOVE ACTUALLY...?
ReplyDeleteLove Actually is all around.
Love.... I believe touches even teh stone hearted one... and the one receptive to it... would fall again and again.. till they rise in love.... trust me love is actually a serendipitious instance.... should it touch it will leave you smiling even when you are down... i mean, it is too wonderful to describe... to be experienced but so difficult to capture in words!!
ReplyDeleteThat's LOVE.... and the best way to know that??
Ask yourself, why you fell in love?? You'll never have the complete answer.... there'd be things you like, stuff you hate, times when you just want to call things off...... yet you can't... you just have to be together!! That's when you are love... the choice to accept this truth is yours!!
Love always!!
->jewel
ReplyDeletethanks :) and i guess thats just human nature...u tend to hate sumtin even tho the fault is entirely ur own!
->aakash
lol yeah...love that movie...i feel it in my fingers, i feel it in my toeeess!!
->sam
you spoke my mind sam!
~stuff you hate, times when you just want to call things off...... yet you can't...
yeah there have been so many instances where i just cannot let go because it means so much and the thot of letting go tears me apart
honest post!
ReplyDeletebut you are getting too logical about something that shouldnt be analysed logically :)
hormonically speaking, "love" is nothing but secretion of a hormone that triggers a certain set of behavior. Scientists have proved that this hormone robs you - to a great extent - off the power to think critically about the person in question.
Michelle a very sweet and touchy post..I def know what you are going thru since iam in the same state..Enjoy this till u can
ReplyDeleteVery encouraging one Michi...especially for me.
ReplyDelete**How can you just dismiss the entire prospect of loving someone after just one or two bad experiences
true. but in my case it's like a truck-load of bad experiences hehe.
Anyways this post gave me strength and courage...it taught me never to give up on love, cos there's so much more surprises awaiting in life...I'll keep that in mind.
ty Michi HUGGGGGGGZ!
Keshi.
->jitendra
ReplyDeletethe whole logical aspect to this comes with bad experiences...u tend to play safe, think logical cuz u know wut happened the last time u din play safe...and din use ur mind...and even though love IS all about the heart, using ur head sometimes saves u from being hurt...just a small theory of mine...cuz being logical with it now, has definitely made things better :)
->jaan ki sweetheart
~Enjoy this till u can
lol i don think this will ever end :)
->keshi
thats my keshi! cheers!
ahaa...michelle...ur post echoed my sentiments! One should never give up on love coz honestly love doesn't happen just once...there's always that someone special and if we can't take the chances with love than what else is there to live for? This is one roller coaster ride that's a must do...must experience and must live through for everyone!! :)
ReplyDeleteand one gooodddd experience can wipe out any traces of a whole lot of bad ones....but if we don't take the plunge....we're never gonna know are we? :)
I loved this post ... it spoke my heart..
and thank you for the wishes :) and the lovely card... u made my day special! :))
~and one gooodddd experience can wipe out any traces of a whole lot of bad ones....but if we don't take the plunge....we're never gonna know are we? :)
ReplyDeletehaha veryy true...u just need that one good experience to make u forget all the sorrows or bad experiences in the past! and yes plunge right away i say! dont think just plunge...u'll get hit by nothing but warmth and affection :) and ur welcome ishi! hope u had a lovely day!
'Christmas is all around me
ReplyDeleteAnd so the feeling grooowws...'
That rocker Billy Mack was some character! =D
lol true!
ReplyDeletewho knows the next person i meet could be my soul mate :) see i am still waiting :) who cares for age!!! lol!!!!
but it hurts when you give a lot and someone walks away on you...
"I just want to tell those that have given up, NEVER give up cause the person that is actually meant for you, is around...and when the time is right, you will know.He will open up his hand and will have that key to your heart in his palm :-) "
ReplyDeletethanks for reminding me to believe in this line ... :)
gud one!
you have written it so well :))
ReplyDeleteNEVER give up :)) I totally beleive in this
Thanks sweetsss
->aakash
ReplyDeleteahaha isn't it so hilarious how he keeps forgetting hes gotta say 'love' instead of christmas :P i loved his character...especially the part where he dissed blue!!
->vishesh
yeah, it does hurt...but u shud remember that it is probably NOT meant to be and move on...thats probably th best u can do for urself..never beat urself up over sumtin tht din work out :) and i bet u don havta wait very long u'll find urs soon nuff...and hey, i can have more than one soulmate u know ;D
->white forest
ur welcome...glad it means sumtin :)
->poo!
ur welcome sweetie! cheers!
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ReplyDeleteI just want to tell those that have given up, NEVER give up cause the person that is actually meant for you, is around...and when the time is right, you will know.He will open up his hand and will have that key to your heart in his palm :-)
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super!
lol thanks
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