Sparkle (Poo)

A wish for you because you mean so much to me
I’m hoping that you spend your day just where you want to be
With people whom you love and doing things you love to do
‘Cause you deserve a special day that sparkles – just like you :))

Time to smile (Puja) ;))

When all the world looks gloomy and you seem to be filled with sadness n sorrows, it is only one's smile that lights up the ambience for you(Accha theeK hai even Hug). When we smile, (Dil se) our inner joy is first reflected in our eyes and u glow with love.( Not like ooh ouch types) Pyaari smile do yaar.

People have thousands of reasons to smile. Some smile in joy, some smile in amusement, some in victory (ok I am smiling because I am getting married) ;) Think of some childish pleasures – hmmm like like jaise !!! kuch dimag mein nahi aaya …AAp log batao?

In today's world a smile has become a rare expression. Work pressure and tensions of all sorts, studies, family pbms, we have forgotten how to smile….. Arre yaar mujhe bhi bahut bahut bahut tension hai ufff Don’t ask me !!! But I still smile, That’s life now come On smile( Ok I can see Keshi , Ishi, Amit and and the Unknown Guest smiling) Good aache bacchein ho.

A smile can always win us friends. Yes even some times bad ppl. So better be carefull. Pyaari Smile matlab. Sweet ok!!

Ok Now something very serious - Most often, in an bad, fights, impulsive moment, we tend to speak bitterly, (everybody friends, mom, dad, kids. husband) little realising how painful and hurting it can be to others. Only in a moment of careful thought, we realise the sharpness of those words. But by then little can be done to change it. It is with a word as with an arrow - once let it loose and it does not return.

Words have immense power. The reason of sharp words is so strong that nothing can mend the damage caused by the bitter words. (If you have fought with someone Just Smile and Hug) ok this is only with Good, Close friends, family Not all ;)

Please Smile ;) Have a Rocking Friday and wonderful weekend.

PS: Sorry I am not able to comment. I wanted to post something. Love you all. Love you Sexyroo.

Latest Post(Poo)

I am feeling very embarrassed for not being around. Its just that I cant access the blog from office, and sometimes when i can access i get scared to login to Google. (manager)and by the time I come home I am so tired. Ok Poo is giving excuses. Sorry!!! So I am sorry Guys. Will make sure I just don’t leave BUF like this.

I have a Good new to share with you all. Few of the BUF members already know about it. Guys I am getting married:) My parents are just waiting for me to be home. (Mujhe bhi jaldi jana hai). His name is Satya Khanna :) Ok can say (Love + arrange):). We are very close close friends from last 2yrs. So finally decided to tie the knot.

One of my Latest Post.

Love in Dark.

Your blood crystal and your lips are cold, and shining in the glow, but it comes from within. You are nothing but you, you are everything that is best in you and nothing that is bad. You glow with the desire to do all that you find to be good; so that you throw off sparks and glitter in the night.

It is only at night, because the night is the time to be most alive. It is at night that thoughts come together and blend in different colors; it is then that I suddenly understand, I see, I comprehend exactly. I am here and I am present in the very now, in what is happening, every glimpse and every glance catches my eye and I laugh; I laugh and laugh, for there is nothing to be sad about.



Turning off the light, let me hug the dark; it's in the night that I see u, that I shiver with the knowledge of having met u, a dream that I build out of my own fantasies and shadows.I need u to know me and so I know u, and it is u who gives me the strength and show me how to proceed.

It's a world of my own making. I see you every night, but you don't know it- I dream of you and ur smile. It is not a dream but a unfulfilled desire; I create it for myself and you come and help me complete it.

It's everything that I want and that I am when it is dark; it's only then that I can think and that I actually see. I know things at night that I don't know in the morning and I have to struggle to find them again. I prefer the night because then I needn't even look. It is reflected, then, and shines on me, and I simply take in the glow and shine. I construct it in my mind and then I see it with my eyes; And there I am forgiven, and loved and when I sleep u protect me. I dance all night with you.

I am alive now, and I am dancing, and soon I will be dragged back down again, but for now, for these few precious moments, oh, how alive, and how deeply felt!

I Miss you!!

Blue(Puja)

He hurries towards his home to collect his travellers cheques.

But on the way he saw her with another Man!! Yes it was she, the woman of his dreams, but holding hands with another man, who looks more or Less like a gay!!!

Ruhi looks at him and trys to talk to him "You, you are, you're a great deal too good for me, and I'm so grateful to you, and so proud and fond of you, I don't
know why I can't love you as you want me to. I've tried, but I can't change the feeling, and it would be a lie to say I do when I don't"...

PS : How are you all? Sorry to be away from here for a long time. I am back :)

Sorry Guys if i have messed up the story. Feel Free to edit!!

Mr Right(Puja)

‘Mr Right’ is explained as an image of perfection --- Looks, thoughts, behavior, personal history, character, and everything else that completes the whole package called Mr Right or He is my Man etc .No body is perfect for sure. But the qualities what I want my man to have is. Ok here it goes.

ROMANCE
””Satisfaction”” a must. (Can be anything and everything). I prefer a guy who'll pamper me loads, gifts (accha chalo occasionally baba ...once in a while baba !!! uff ladke bhi na ek baar gift de kar phir kabhi nahi dete !!! plssss Bhagwanji accha mr Right dena mujhe) affectionate, a massage, (huh!!!! Kab mere sapne pure honge- Full body massage chahiye. Aur Mr right se hi chahiye ) he must be a good cook(Hopefully ok m I asking for too much). He must sing songs for me, he should dance with me. Must say I am very beautiful (even when I look like a devil). He must be very passionate and expressive. He must love me so much that i go crazy. He must know how to Kiss. Must have the urge to try out new things can be anything ;-) And when I am with him…. He dare not tell me about other girls looks and figure what ever nahi tho mardungi usko I am very jealous!!!

MATURITY
Ok men are like fine wine they definitely get better with age. They don’t play-play around nymore. They are more serious and straight forward. I'm NOT attracted to guys who are "a bit older" Ok. Just that he must be a mature+yet+a+fun+loving+person. A great sense of humour. Ok I know I know maturity time ke saath pata chaltha hai but still he has to matured. His maturity will even show when he talks, The way he EATS. (uff Few guys eat like OMG) I mean manners. He should be mature and must understand me. …Ok I will understand him too.

LIFESTYLE
Love doesn't come cheap, but it doesn't have to be shown in all the expensive ways. Ok to be frank he must be stable and secure financially. Of course, we all dream of living well, but it's a mistake to mix your expectations of love with your hopes for a first-class lifestyle. Don’t you guys agree.!!! I am not saying that when my Mr right will cross my path, I will recognize him with the size of his wallet. Not like that …but definitely he must be secured enough to take care of my basic needs. In short ….”Shortage na ho money ka” Bacchon ke liye bhi kuch sochna padtha hai na. And I love Kids so he must be ready for atleast 3 kids 2 mine and 1 adopted. (When I will marry I will make sure he signs a bond paper that I can adopt a babee…you never know Guys can change there mind anytime). Don’t ask me why do I want to adopt one kid. So he better be ready for this.

LOOKS AND APPEARANCE
I just hate men who are smelly and untidy. Accha aab tell me U may not judge a book entirely by its cover na, but you definitely like the cute ones. So like that, Cute, handsome who can really turn heads. He should be Rough from outside but soft from inside ok I am impressed by looks, and will definitely set my standards high when it comes to physical appearance. He must be a person beautiful from both inside and out. But now a days thr are very few guys who are really genuine. (Bhagwanji ne acche ladko ka production band kardiya) hehehehhehe

Ok I think I will stop here now. My list is a never ending one.

According to me (No offence here to anybody) there is NO Mr. Right (or Ms. Right). But who truly think that they have got there MR/MS right they are truly blessed!!!! But I am not so blessed so I think the person whom I meet will love him truly regardless if he forgets to buy you a rose, forgets my birthday, anniversary. What truly matter is he offers his heart completely to me. None can ever be more Mr. Right than that!

Take care Guys and Have a Happy Friday and a good weekend.

Virtual ??(Puja)

Virtual Relation - This topic I really don’t know how to start it. So please bear with me if I say something which might sound weird to you. Oh ho app sab ke jitna aacha nahi likh sakthi plss plss bear with me.

Life is all about relationships. Family, friends, colleagues, neighbors, relatives -the list is endless. Every day you come across a set of people and bond a relationship with them. Be it a chai wala where you drink ur cup of tea everyday “Dada chai dona garam garam” and one day he suddenly disappears. I am sure you will at least think and ask some one wr’s he gone ?? what happ?? Is he alrite ??? Does it sound funny to you all!!!!

The bottom line is that you, consciously or unconsciously, form a bond with people in your life.

From a simple smile to an half an hr’s of conversation, the depth of your connection may vary, but the string that ties you to different people remains the same. The need to love someone and be loved in return, to have someone to share with and be a part of their experiences-our whole life revolves around these few things. Internet is totally different ballgame. We can connect to total strangers, some of whom you may never meet in real life. Some bad some good!!!!

I entered the Net world when I was all alone totally lost no friends, heartbroken, sirf rona and just pbms pbms and pbms.

Everybody knows here that my niece Prachi is not well. None of my Real friends whom I used to hang out with, my so called close relatives!! Never did any body come forward with a helping hand. And to be frank I dint knew what to do at that time whom should I talk? Which hospital should I go? What should I do ? I felt so helpless. “”Meine aap sab se help mangi”” and its you all l who gave me support, love, prayers for prachi and gifts too. And I am out of words to thank each one of you. And I don’t want to thank anybody now bcoz we are a family now which is growing and is become stronger and stronger.



And tell me guys who will send gifts for you?

Me and keshi have a wonderful bonding with her. ”””Its not that I don’t have with anybody else …hai sab ke saath hai ””” Just listen to me ok. So I came across her blog may be November 2006. And from that it like we are Great frnds we mail each other we message each other. I can’t tell that our relation is a virtual one!!! Never will I …She is an Angel for me 

My mum always says why do want to make friends …what this chatting business??? It’s all bullshit. (Marwadi huna so pretty strict for girls here) and I used to say - What's wrong in making new friends? Maa. Don't we do that in real life too? Don't we walk across a roomful of people and introduce ourselves and start a conversation? Aren't those people strangers for us at that moment of time?



But when I showed her betweenfrnds blog and showed her how I have got the response for Prachi. When Keshi send Gifts for Prachi she was just quiet …she was in tears. So do you think I should name my relation with you all as Virtual? It’s like slapping OUR relation, making fun!!!!!

Vitual word is thr in my dictionary but doesn’t apply for everybody. It’s how you consider you relation to be. It’s how you want the relation to be. And it sometimes actually in our hands whether to have a Virtual relation, Fake relation or a Real Realtion !!!!

Besides, how real are the real relationships? (Not pointing to all the relations here)

I have been so lucky to have you all in my life. I might not talk/chat with everybody here, But the kind of bond we all have is amazing. That 1 hr of updating and reading thru blogs and little bit of chit chat are real bliss. I can be myself without the artificial barriers of looks, social and financial status and so on.

Kudos to all of us !!! :) Love you all



PS : Sexyroo dont cry ok after seeing these pictures. Prachi is doing fine. She will be undertreatment for may be life long. She can sit now :) isnt that a good news :))) for atleast 15 mts continously. She is my chottu chottu Ladoo :))

Have a nice day !! :)))

The Saturday(Puja)

Waited n Waited but the there was no call. Yet another Saturday at home, alone. I couldn't’t remember the last time I had gone out. I mean, I had friends. I was invited places all the time. But I never went. I just wasn’t the kind of girl that hung out at the mall, or went out to lunch over the weekend

I don’t know what made me say "Yes" to going out that day. I guess something deep inside of me was ready for a change. So instead of being at home, I found myself scrunched in the back seat of a car between some people that I knew, but wasn't very close to.

"Where are we going exactly?" I asked Tom.

"We’re meeting some other people over at Terry’s house. It’s just a little
get-together. You know."

"Oh," I said quietly, trying desperately to remember who Terry was. I was becoming more and more uncomfortable. I mean, here I was, sandwiched between two guys I barely knew and on my way to some stranger’s house. Now I knew exactly why I hadn’t gone out in a long time.

I guess the boy beside, who I am guessing was named Jack, noticed that I was feeling shy. He pulled lightly at the end of my ponytail. "What’s the matter? Come on, it’ll be fun!"

"It’s really hot in there, you know?" I finally said.

I heard Jack clearing his throat. "Hey Daniella?" he said.

"Yeah?" "Do you like me?"

Oh my gosh, I’m going to have a heart attack.

I almost screamed out loud. How could he ask me that kind of question? I felt like the skin was going to melt off of my cheeks. I stayed silent.

"Daniella?" Jack shouted!!!

Not 10 but 13 things (Puja) (^-^)

This is my niece. Just wanted to post her picture :))

Cooking !!! pls i don't like cooking. So i better write about me. So let me bore you :)) OK if ur wondering why 13 things about me then you will have to read the post.

1)I can’t do everything

2)I am obsessed with getting the perfect body but too lazy to do anything about it. I started jogging a couple of weeks ago, but now I am so lazy to get up in the morning. I just cant!!! If I spent all my energy on actually working out instead of dieting and stuffing my face, maybe I'd have a body like Beyonce already. Ooolalllala what sexy Butt -- Kuch zayad bol diya kya !!!

3)I want 2 grow and stand up for myself even if it means my standing up for me would hurt someone else's feelings or offend someone or even make someone hate me…ok this life is NOT short for me,I know Bhgwanji will not call me so soon. So to make life more easier and merrier I need some mirch masala. ENOUGH+OF+BEING+GOOD+WITH+OTHERS+WHO+DON’T+DESERVE+MY+FRIENDSHIP.

4I need to learn, how to stop worrying about everything all at once and not let everything cloud my head, this especially becomes a problem at night when I’m trying to fall asleep and I can't stop thinking. Ever!!!! Kabhi tho aaram se sona chahiye!!! Poo ko bahut sara responsibility hai.

5)My parents – when they don’t listen to me, it makes me to throw up, scream, and run the other direction. (mein pagal nahi hoon OK) kabhi sunte hi nahi woh

6)I am completely aware of my imperfections... but I don't allow other people to tell me. Ok keep it with yourself …tell me when I am there and NOBODY else. Nobody is perfect, if I accept imperfections then why can’t others accept mine!!! Point hai na …Few people think that they are perfect, and according to me , they are the most imperfect people on this earth. But I still accept them the way they are. I cant help it bcoz they are my friends.

7)I am very quiet person, I don’t not talk to everybody. I can go and watch movie and eat alone now … yippee

8)I can be motivated about the things I need to get done even when I really really really don't want to do them.

9)I only sing when I’m alone, and very very occasionally in front of someone I trust a lot.

10)I am movie freak, I can watch as many movie I can till I literally don’t fall asleep. I love to watch movies (Both Hindi and English)

11)I love to break rules! So I am breaking a rule here I have posted 11 things about me. ….. Ishiji punishment nahi doge na ….. aur punishment dene ke liye mujhe aap se milna hoga, ( Kab hum mile pata nahi ) so atleast let me enjoy breaking the rule.

12)One more plssss – I am Arian, and let me tell you that Ariana's are very jealous….Right now I am very J of my friend, she is going to Manila, Turkey and Nigeria …I want to go!!!!

13)Last one plssss – I can get attracted to smart, handsome and good looking men easily. Once my parents showed my kundli to some pandit and he said to my dad that “ Tell your daughter not get carried away with any tom, dick and harry ( smart looking men) aap log kuch aur mat sochna aab !!! (^-~)
(Poo control yourself )

Ok that’s enough …Ishi plss don’t kick me out from here. You are so sweet na. I know you will not do it.

Lots of love, hugsssss and and and that’s all kisses sab ko nahi de sakti na, so for all the ladies, sweet, Not sweet, cute , Not cute , mommies, single, Not single, KISSES from Poo.

Music and Holiday (Poo)

Music and traveling (Both are close to me)

Music is one of the greatest gifts of all. It asks nothing in return. The sounds of the rain slapping on the ground, that's music to me. Music filled with romance which gently pulls u close, and you begin to dance whether you are alone or lost in the crowd. Music has a special place in my heart. I share secrets with music… Music that I can relate to can be anything actually Rock , Hot, pop, Sexy, Slow, Ghazals. I am very emotional person so lyrics of the song is off course important to me that can show my emotions. That’s music to me. Music is like freedom for me that can take away all the tension from me (at least for sometime). Music takes me beyond my creativity and imagination. Music is the food of all my moods. I Like Shakira, Nirvana , Jagjit singh, etc

Music is perfect and I know it’s good for me ^o-~^ and you.

Holiday (Company expenses) ;)

I loveeeeee to travel. My London trip was one of the best trips. I was away from home for the first time in my life for 6 months and did loads of masti(Hum wahan jage bhigad gayee) London is so beautiful, the tube stations, the ice creams, the wine , the clean roads , the London eye, Madam Tussuad's, the parade, the queens place. I saw snow for the first time in life in London. It was not heavy one though but the sight was so beautiful. Then the journey from London to Scotland OMG!!! it was so beautiful, the mountains the fresh air, the black water lake. I can’t even describe it in words. Then the needles trip , the beaches there are only filled with pebbles there is no sand and clean blue waters. The pebbles in all different types, shapes and colors. I almost landed collecting so many of them.

Its special because i was in love for the first time( Many stories to share)!!!

I can go on and on and on about my London trip. And I don’t want to bore you to death phewwww!!! I would love to go there again !!!

Have a great weekend :)

This is Poo :)) (Puja)

Thanks Ishi for inviting me and letting me be a part of this group.

Intro (will keep this a short one) - you guys can call me poji or poo.

I am very cute, I laugh when something or somebody is talking very seriously (Sorry). I am very lazy at times. I can never forgive someone very easily. I am hopelessly romantic. I dream a lot. Sometimes Black and white. I am very sensitive, I cry at the littlest things; touching movies, sad endings. Can't hurt any body (but still it hap’s unknowingly). I am very emotional, but still very strong. I am very homely person. I am okish at cooking. But love it when someone soecial cooks for me. I love to watch movie. I love pink color... I am so bad at singing!!! You guys will runaway if you here it !!!! and am a foodie :)I am working and staying with my family, Single and I love my nephew and niece. I can’t remember bthdays and anniversary …I am so bulakad !!! .

Dating fundoos.

Dating tips for Girls.
1. Always smell good even if it’s just shampoo! You don't want to spoil it all just by smelling bad?? And plsss at the same time don't overdo it...otherwise you will end up smelling like a perfume factory!

2. Don't be a grouch. A friendly behavior is always a sign of openness and pleasant nature. That will warm them even when it's minus 20 outside! Smile a lot!! It helps reduce all the nervousness of the first date. just a warm straight-from-the-heart smile will do wonders!

3. Take some time to dress up. Well...how you do it depends on how your partner likes you to be but most of all how you like yourself to be. You should be comfortable in what you are wearing.

4. Be yourself ...don't look like a cake with messed up icing and spoil it all! Don't fish for compliments! (Though honestly you would love to hear how great you look!) Let it come out easily. You will know you've had him when he tells you, "You look gorgeous" even on a bad-hair day!

5. Say their names every time you speak to them. It does make a person feel important....I don’t know I feel this :)

Dating tips for Guys.
1. Wear the right kind of after-shave lotion or perfume. But remember, not too much, not too less!

2. Though you would like her to think of you as a tough and rough , so she feels protected in your presence. This particular attitude puts off a lot of girls. Most of the times guys are so consumed with acting macho that makes girls think you are not sensitive enough! So, take it easy! and be nice and little sensitive. ...(most of the guys are so unsensitive)

3. Please guys dress-up well on at least ur first date. Most of the men don't think they have to pay attention to the way they dress. Its not that you need to apply makeup or something, just that be neat haircut, remember to shave, be presentable. C'mon ...all you guys want your partners to look their best so why not look presentable yourself. She wouldn't like going out with a shabbily dressed date herself, right?

4. Remember to complement your date. But it should be genuine! It could be her hair, her smile, her outfit, her lipstick, her sense of humor... or just about anything! After all she's YOUR date! There's definitely something about this girl or you wouldn't be dating her in the first place, right?

5. Take to her a very nice place, its ur first date right !!! so a very nice and cozy Coffee shop or something nice...whr the crowd is very very less.

Keep smiling always :))